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ABOUT…COMPLETED TREATMENT PROGRAM—NOW WHAT? One of my clients called to proudly
announce that he had completed his 30 day “treatment program”. I was as proud
of him as he was of himself for being “clean and sober for 30 days!” His next
question “Now what, MAx?”
My response “Now the
work really begins.”
Being “clean and
sober”, whether for 30 days or 30 years, doesn’t mean you are in total
recovery. It means that you are giving your mind, body, and spirit a time-out from
abuse with alcohol and/or drugs.
Being “clean and sober”
means that your mind and body have started
to detox enough to make a serious decision about committing to a healthier
lifestyle.
Being “clean and sober”
means working on putting your mind, body, and spirit in perfect healthy
alignment.
One of the important
recovery concepts learned in both traditional and holistic treatment programs
is that you are not alone in either your addiction, or, your recovery: there
will always be a convenient 12 Step program available to support your efforts.
It provides an environment of people that have had similar experiences, so
everyone knows your story and is prepared to share their experiences and what
helped them with their success.
“Support” is crucial
during the early recovery period. For many, because they burned so many
bridges, 12 Step may be their only support. The lucky ones are those that have
had families that have hung in through the worse of the worse: angry meltdowns,
theft, homelessness, jail, and other antisocial behaviors. These are character
traits learned while living and surviving in the world of addiction.
Recognizing and changing these behaviors is where the work really begins.
Having a supportive
family is like having a jump start on healing. As you continue to detox, being
around your family will help you slide back into the strong foundation that is
based on your family’s healthy values and beliefs. The family is the ideal
deprogrammers necessary to lovingly
reindoctrinate you back to familiar conventional thinking.
A healthy family and
friends make up a huge factor for successful recovery.
From a holistic
approach for substance abuse disorders, here are other factors that lead to a
successful healthier lifestyle:
Have
a regular routine that addresses the mind, body, and center.
-Address individual nutritional needs that
allows the body to heal nutrient depletion
-Drink lots of water to allow easier
physical movements and the ability to think clearer.
-Regular moderate and high intensity aerobic
exercises, as suggested by the Guidelines of American College of Sports Medicine, that
allows for a better chance of abstinence, decreases anxiety, and eases
withdrawal and depression symptoms.
-Surround yourself with healthy people that
strive to be even better people, and, know that you deserve to be one of them.
-Review, renew, and renovate your values and
your beliefs—being in recovery means that you have learned a lot more about
life, update based on the lessons you have learned.
-Define your purpose and make daily steps to
live it.
FAMILY
MATTERS in recovery.
YOU
WANTING to change is the KEY to recovery.
Glad we
talked about this. Of course, it is just my
opinion.
This
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